Dara's Diary |
NOV 15TH, MON |
Today, Ben and I visited a school
in the country in Kokubu City Kihari elementary school). We
played games in two different classes, one 3rd/4th grade class and
5th/6th grade class. I taught them a game I play in my son,
Dannys, class. The games are called silent ball and 4 corners.
The kids had fun. We had to take our shoes off before entering
the school and wear these slippers. As we were driving
someone stopped us and asked us to help them catch their loose cow.
We stopped in the middle of the road (left car running) and we all got
out to catch cow. Then we had lunch and visited a private high
school, only 400 students, all in uniform and again had to take off
shoes and wear these very uncomfortable slippers. I am having a
good time here and it is very beautiful and everything is very green.
My host family is great and the kids are adorable!!
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NOV 16TH, TUE |
Today was a very long day. I spent
the WHOLE day at an elementary school and introduced myself and helped
teachers teach English I think 6 times!! My face hurts from
smiling so much and my brain hurts from trying to communicate. I
followed the English teacher, Yuka, around to different classes
teaching English. Nishi sho school seems to teach a lot of
English. Yuka is very pretty and very nice. She is 25.
We taught English to 5 different classes, the teachers were very nice,
too. One class gave me a big card thanking me for my visit with
some origami glued all over it, I will keep it FOREVER. I
have still not seen much else but inside and outside of schools.
But I am learning a lot of school life. It is very different
from American schools. Lunch is served inside classrooms and is
brought to the classroom and served by students. Then everyone
brushes their teeth together. It seems in Japan there is no gray
area, all black or white. A rule is a rule and cannot be bended.
They almost bite your head off if you touch the floor with your shoe,
even though the floor is hard wood or tile. I do like the food,
even school lunch was excellent. Although I think I have already
lost 5 pounds, because of course, it is less food than in America.
All the kids eat the same lunch and nobody complains, that is way
different than American. Today at my Japanese home Tamami taught
a bunch of neighbor kids English, she speaks very good English. The kids are great.
I played games with kids at school and
it was very fun. I am missing my family so much that my heart is
aching. I wish, since I am the chaperone, that I could touch
base with the American students here, I hope they are doing fine.
Well I feel like I am learning the Japanese culture very fast since I
am the only American around. My host family is great and reminds
me that we are all the same American or Japanese. Tomorrow I will go to Keigo:s school, not until 10:40, so I will visit
one of Tamami:s friends. I am looking forward to that.
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NOV 17TH, WED |
Today was a great day. I
did not have to be at Kokubu elementary school until 10:40, so I was
able to relax a bit this morning. Kokubu school was so much fun.
The kids loved learning English from me. The teacher was a great
teacher and had great ideas for the kids to learn English. After
class students from all over the school ran over to me to get my
signature (autograph). Now, I know you are laughing, I was too.
I felt a bit like Britney Spears (too bad I don't look like her).
It felt very odd to be signing my name a zillion times. I am
just a mom from Manteca, Ca. Keigo, the boy whose home I am
staying, later came home from school with a c.d. that the principal
had made with a bunch of photos of my day. What a great gift!!!
After my school day, Tamami and I went to the 100 yen store, just like
our $ store. Then we went out for sushi! Oh, the sushi was
awesome!!! I loved it all and tried everything that Tamami
selected. It was quite an experience, it is served on a conveyor
belt and is common for sushi to be served this way. I hope all
students are trying different kinds of food. I have loved all
the food I have eaten (quite nice not to be preparing it, either).
Then I came home and went for a walk with Keigo, Mitchan, and neighbor
girls, they were very cute and are trying to teach me to count in
Japanese. Then Tamami had more kids over for her English class,
she is a good English teacher and the kids love her. They also
love American candy that I have brought them. I still miss my
family something horrible, but am adjusting. I love you Mike,
Lia, Danny and Steve!!!! and miss you all, just wait till I am home
and cooking tofu and spinach and fish.
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NOV 18TH, THU |
I have learned a lot ABOUT
misconceptions during this stay in Japan. First of all I agree
with Emily, Japanese people have a lot of food. I too, may be
starting to gain weight, no exercise and lots of food. Also, a lot
of meat, I am not use to eating so much meat,- bacon, chicken, beef for
all three meals!!! Only difference is not so much sweets, however,
a lot of the food tastes very sweet to me, much sweeter than I am use
to.. Another thing whoever is telling the Japanese people that
Americans do not use umbrellas, needs to stop, that is so so funny.
We use umbrellas just as much as anyone else. MNCC had an article
that my host family had to read and it says that American students do
not have homework. Now that one is hilarious. I have
never met an American student who does NOT have homework, from
kindergarten-12th grade. I am sure my 6th grader is cracking up
laughing right now. Oh my gosh, and what the article says about
how we Americans have dinner is hilarious, maybe they need to visit an
average American home so they can have accurate information. Maybe
the article was written 50 years ago with Ozzie and Harriet (oh, wait,
they were not real people). I have always thought Japanese people
all knew about computers and have lots of computer equipment. Misconception.
Itfs
really just like in
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NOV 19TH, FRI |
Today was a great day. I
felt like I was on vacation. I did not teach any English today.
Just vacationed. My family here and I went to Kagoshima City
today. The father took the day off work and kids took off of
school. We went to Mt. Sakurajima island. It was so
incredibly beautiful, steam was spewing (sp?) out. I took some
beautiful pictures. Then we went on a ferry across the bay to
Kagoshima City. Our car went with us. That was so cool to
me. I have never seen anything like that, although I think we do
have ferries like that in America, I have never seen one before.
The weather was beautiful. We shopped around tenmon kan.
I bought some presents to bring home to my kids. I had a mocha
at a coffee shop, oishi (very delicious), it was just like I make
at home. Much smaller, though. I think most people here
drink instant coffee, at my home here they have drip coffee, but it is
coffee in a tea bag. Very interesting. I am bringing some
home to show my friends. I gave the boys 200 yen each to
buy a slushie, the cola flavor looked way different than 7-11.
We then took pictures from this beautiful hotel that was high on a
hill. This evening the city of Kokubu had a welcome party for
Ben and I. It was very nice, lots of good food and very nice
things said. There were teachers and principals from the schools
I have visited there in my honor, very nice. Now that I see how
much the Japanese teachers work at helping students learn English, I
am so thankful and feel privileged that I was able to come help. The
teachers I have meant seem to love teaching and care for their
students very much. Japan and the people here are
teaching me things that I could not have learned on American soil. Thank
you MNCC.
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NOV 20TH, SAT |
Today was so so fun. My
host family brought me to Sendai City for me to take the
Shinkansen to Yatsushiro. The Shinkansen was so cool. It
goes 200mph!!! Wow, it was so smooth, and fast. At first I was
scared because there were no seat belts, but did not need. It
was a great experience. Then Yohko and her family picked me up
at the station and we drove to Kumamoto. We went to this
department store that must have had 10 stories, Yohko had me get
my makeup done at Chanel counter, I asked the girl if her name was...Tsuruya
(it was the stores name!!) It was the biggest store I have ever
been in. Yohko's mother bought my family some beautiful and very
nice presents. I am so happy I got to meet Yohko's family, I
have known her now for 6 years and never imagined seeing her in Japan.
We then traveled to Fukuoka and went to Toys R Us and we had coffee at
Starbucks, I now know what a short is, it is very small. In
America our smallest drink is a tall. We had burgers at Mos
Burger (popular burger place in Japan). It was actually best
burger I have had. Now I am at Yohko's house. She has the
cutest little dog, a chihuahua. It is so beautiful to drive
through Japan, lots of mountains and beautiful countryside, but it
makes me car sick!!! At least while I feel sick I can look at
beautiful surroundings. I am staying overnight with Yohko and
sightseeing tomorrow.
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NOV 21ST, SUN |
Today I woke up at Yohko's house
in Nankan, (Kumamoto prefecture). We left the house around 9:30
and headed toward Saga prefecture. We stopped at a rest area, a
place to park off the highway, that sells food and souvenirs. We
picked up some breakfast to eat in the car. I ate a bread roll
that was filled with sweet curry. Oishii!! Very delicious. The
drive to Saga was beautiful. Very mountainous, with tea and
oranges growing everywhere. In Saga we went to this theme park
that had a lot of Japanese history. They had a ninja/samurai
show, that was very cool. At the end of the show they had the
audience have a treasure hunt for hidden paper shuriken. I found
one (probably cause it was hidden high and everyone else was very
short!). So they had me wear this shield and said I had to wear
it the whole day at this park to receive free games and presents.
Hee hee. Then I had my picture taken with a Japanese Princess
kimono. The kimono was very heavy. I was glad I went to
this ninja place, because I saw a lot of Japanese history. Then
we drove back to Kumamoto prefecture and shopped some more in You Me
Town (little mall), stopped had a rest area and had nice sit down
lunch. I had spicy bean curry. Oh it was great!! Too
spicy for Sayoka and Yoko, but great for me!! Then it was time
for me to head back to the shinkansen station. It was sad to say
goodbye to Yohko but I am SO glad that I got to see her. At my
welcome party someone asked me what was the one thing that I
wanted to see in Japan, and I had to say that it was Yohko!! My
train was leaving at 5:50. Oh, the train is SO fast that when we pass
another Shinkansen, we can;t even see in the windows. Tamami
picked me up from the station and we went to her parents house in
Sendai City for dinner. What a beautiful dinner. Tamamis
sister and family was there also. Everything was delicious and
beautifully prepared. Then Tamami had me try on Her yukata, it
is very pretty and she GAVE it to me. That was so thoughtful and
I am very appreciative. Everyone here has been so gracious here
to me. Tamami told me that Keigo (age 7) wrote in his journal
today that he missed me. Is that so sweet!! Then RiRisa (age 1)
saw me and started saying, nose, eye, because I have been teaching her
English words. Now it is after 11 so I need to get to bed
because I have a very long day tomorrow at Nishi sho.
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NOV 22ND, MON |
Yesterday at Tamamis parents
house they had this square shaped rice with beans in it called Seki-han.
It is a special dish made for special days. It is a different
kind of rice. Today I went back to Nishi Sho school. Sho
means elementary school. Yuka is the English teacher there, I
followed her around helping teach English to fifth graders. One
class did a very special performance just for me, they sang a song,
played Tequila with brass instruments, and played a song on recorders.
The recorder song was cool because I have been missing my church and
the song was the a Christian hymn (they did not know that and it is
the second time I have heard the same hymn). The next class did
another great performance for me, card tricks and a cheer/dance to the
"hey Mickey". One little boy in the class did a speech
for me all about Japan and he memorized it in English. And of course,
I helped teach English in all the classes. It is very
interesting to me how much Japanese want to learn English. I had
no idea. It is interesting that in Japan it is common to be
asked your blood type. Oh, if you to know about Japanese food,
just watch Anpanman, it is a cartoon that is ALL about Japanese food,
they rice bowlman, currypanman, salt & pepper man, oh it is very
funny and all little kids love it. Oh a rice bowl is a triangle
shape of rice with dried seaweed wrapped around it. They are
told in Japan that we only do laundry on weekends, not so.
Tomorrow we are going to an ancient house called jomon-no-mori.
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NOV 23RD, TUE |
Today we went to Jo mon-no-mori
(archeaolgical museum). It had a lot of ancient history of the
Japan. We tried on ancient Japanese clothes, saw the houses they
use to live in. We watched a movie explaining ancient Japan
times (everything was from 9500years ago) the movie was funny because
the people looked like Americans!! We picked up a box lunch and
went to this very nice park. My lunch was great, tonkatsu, oh it
was very good and a lot of lunch. I think it is Japanese fast
food. Later in the evening I was asked to visit this English
conversation class, mostly woman, 2 men. It was very
interesting, the people were diverse. They were happy to have an
American to practice their English on. We talked for 2 hours, I
enjoyed myself. They brought some good goodies, too, Shoro
(Japanese mushroom cake), traditional steamed cake and green tea
candies. I loved all of it. And of course, green tea was
served. I enjoy listening to their ideas of America. I
have learned many things, but a few of them are; Japanese do not wear
sunglasses, they believe that your blood type determines your
character, all public school teachers HAVE to change schools every 7
years, movies cost $20, on special days it is $10. Oh, and this
afternoon, I heard someone shouting and the Ono boys came running in
wanting money. There was a truck with a loud speaker selling
baked sweet potatoes!! Very usual here in Japan. I guess a truck
with a loud speaker goes around in the a.m. selling tofu. and in
the p.m. selling ramen!! No ice cream trucks here.
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NOV 24TH, WED |
Today, from 9:40-1:00 I visited Kokubu Sho
school. I visited two different first grade classes. First
graders here are 7 because school goes from April-March, with
vacations in between. The first graders were very cute and
enjoyed looking at my pictures from home. They all thought Danny
was so so cute!! I played fruit basket and musical chairs with them.
I also helped them learn their colors in English. I played dodge
ball with another class and taught them 4 corners. They sang me
a nice song and played it on their little pianos. I had lunch at
the school, again. It was ok. some kind of meat soup, broccoli
with BACON, bread with frosting to put on it and a little package of
something that looked like trail mix but with little tiny dried up
fish in them. There seems to be many breaks in the school day.
They always have to change their clothes for p.e. and they all change
in front of everyone, even 6th graders. We had to then go pick
up Ririsa at her friends house. I used her friends, Kazues ,
computer. I am missing my family so so much, I cannot wait to go
home. Tamami had her English lesson today, so I took her kids
out for a walk. That was fun. I visited the grocery store
this evening. I could not believe my eyes when I saw that
cantaloupe was $35!!! Wow, that is very expensive. I think on
the short drive to the store I counted how many soda vending machines
there were and I counted to 10, but probably more and a few cigarette
vending machines also. Maybe every 400 yards there are vending
machines selling soda, mostly coca-cola products. I heard a
trucks loud speaker and ran outside to buy sweet potatoes, but this
time the man was selling rod to hang clothes out to dry. I had
some Japanese ice cream that was so so good, it was kinda like an ice
cream sandwich, only the sandwich part was like a cone smashed down.
Tomorrow I have no school to go to, so I guess I get the day off.
Don't know what I will do.
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NOV 25TH, THU |
Today I had no schools to go to.
So I got to have a bit of a relaxing day. I went shopping to
several stores. It is extremely hard to find clothing without
American words on them. And it is surprising how much gang
clothes are here. I think Ecko is their number one brand.
Other clothes too, the print on them is gang type print. Btw,
back home I need to tell all our Japanese restaurants that they are
NOT Japanese. It is funny, I now know what Japanese food really
is. There is no fried rice in Japan. Nobody has wasabe in
soy sauce and dips. Which I love doing back home. The
stores all open here around 10 not earlier. Oh, I had diet pepsi
twist twice now and it is much sweeter here. I went to visit a shrine
today, it was very beautiful. I almost bought this little prayer
backpacks (cause they look like the only backpack in Japan). It
had a prayer for safety. I did not buy cause it seemed like a lot of
money $10. And my God follows me everywhere I go. I
am so thankful that I do not need anyTHING to keep me safe.
Anyway, it was funny how many good luck type items they sold there.
It was funny there was this big drinking water thing and Mitch-an
found a little baby frog there and carried that thing around for a
very long time. I wonder if he is still alive. When we got
home Mitch-an wanted me to go for a walk with him. We played
frisbee (flying disc) and soccer. I have a lot of fun with these
little kids. A bunch of neighbor girls came out and played with
us too and took pictures of me and I of them. They are so so
cute. Tonight Tamami was very nice and for MY thanksgiving dinner, she
bought kfc (ok, not turkey, but chicken, but hey) and a very yummy
chocolate cake that said "Happy Thanksgiving". She
said she had to write on the cake herself because the bakery did not
understand thanksgiving.
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NOV 26TH, FRI |
This morning I went to Kawahara Sho
school. There were three other foreign teachers there also.
Simon was from England, Liz from Chicago, and TeTae was born in Berma,
lived in Japan, Canada and San Francisco for one year. Simon and
Liz are what you call ALT`s, assistant language teachers. They
do not need any credentials because they are considered assistants,
however I think they probably do as much as full fledged teachers.
They work for the government here so their housing is FREE. The
principal of Kawahara Sho was great. She introduced each of us
and played all the games that we played with the kids. It was a
very small school, maybe 6-10 per class and they were combo classes.
Kawahara Sho is located in the mountains and it is beautiful.
Being in Japan is like being in a constant lake Tahoe area at all
times, very beautiful!! Tamami brought me a picnic lunch and the
three of us ate lunch near the school. She brought my favorite-anman
and curryman!! I was informed from the ALT`s that every school
and the city council of Kokubu City received my e-mail that I had
written specifically for my host family. I thought that was
weird, I was told to write a letter to my host family, so it was
personal. Anyway, again had I known that I was coming here to
teach English, and not be a chaperone, I would have been more
prepared. So I feel I did the best I could and I enjoyed myself even
though I did not know what I was doing. This afternoon Ono
family and I went to Tamami's friends house with another friend and
kids there, also. It was very nice, I felt like I was home cause
I was visiting with women and their kids. Tomoni made a great
pizza (she also gave me some chopsticks for home), Atsuko made some
sweet potato cookies and had this great cold tea that tasted just like
my sun tea from home. Oh, if I did my calculations right
(1gal=3.8liter) then gasoline cost equivalent to about $4.50/gallon!!
wow, must be why I have not seen a suburban in Japan!! It seems like
almost all cars come with GPS system/dvd/tv thing on the dash.
Cell phones are as light as a feather and I think every single one has
camera/video and GPS is wanted. The Japanese Maples here are by
far the prettiest I have ever seen and the sago palms (have tons of
pics to prove it to you).
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NOV 27TH, SAT |
Today is my last day here and I have mixed
feelings, I am sad to leave but also so very happy to be back with my
family. This morning Tamami had her English lesson and the kids
were so cute, they all drew pictures of me. I gave them each a
penny and they seemed so happy. We went out to lunch to a
restaurant named 1-2-3, and had Shabu Shabu. Ok, that is it,
that is definatelly my meal in Japan, it was so so good. Quite
an experience, also. I am going to find out if there is anywhere
in America that serves Shabu Shabu. I also had this excellent
rice (my favorite) Tsilashi-zushi. Oh my gosh, it was so good.
Did you know that the rice in sushi has vinegar in it?
That's why I liked this rice so much, there was rice vinegar in it.
We had this very good tea called Soba tea. Then after lunch we
had sweet potato ice cream. It was very good. Did you know
that Kagoshima is famous for their sweet potatoes? They have
sweet potato everything and so far everything with sweet potato I have
eaten I have loved!! Then we drove up this mountain to Kirishima.
Oh, it was beautiful there. Wonderful foliage everywhere with
the most beautiful Japanese maples and beautiful waterfalls. We
stopped at a souvenoir shop and there was a hot spring for feet and
then there was a place where the steam was coming out and it stunk so
bad (sulfur), and to top it off they were steaming eggs to eat.
I was watching t.v. in the car and it was so funny, there was a
commercial for something like diapers for old people and they had this
lady putting one on her husband, a pull up. I don't know, it was
funny. What a surprise I had when we got home, about 7
neighborhood kids were there waiting for me to give me presents.
It was so cute, a few of them wrapped up a 1 yen, since I was giving
them all pennys. I don't know how I am going to be able to haul
all this stuff back to America, but there is nothing that I want to
part with, so I will make it work. I have had a great time and
will miss Japan and think of you all often!!
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